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TLLC Blog Posts

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In January, 2023, TLLC partnered with Lichen Sclerosus Support Network (LSSN). This means my new 2023 blog posts will be published on LSSN’s page. For full details on what the partnership entails, watch this video.

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How to Find a Sex Therapist for Lichen Sclerosus

Living with lichen sclerosus can impact your sexual health. Its impact may be mild to severe. In my last post, I discussed the myriad of ways my sexual health suffered from lichen sclerosus and how working with a sex therapist helped. Many folks haven’t heard of sex therapy before and have asked me for advice on finding one. In this post, I’m going to share what a sex therapist is, how to find one, the importance of vetting your sex therapist and starting therapy.

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Guest Post: How are Trauma and Lichen Sclerosus Connected?

In this guest post, Jen shares her story about living with lichen sclerosus and trauma. It is a reflective piece on the nature of trauma and how it impacts lichen sclerosus. If it feels safe and supportive to your journey, take a couple of minutes to read through this powerful and moving piece.

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How to Deal with Health Anxiety and Lichen Sclerosus

Health anxiety is common in folks with chronic health conditions, including lichen sclerosus. stress management, cognitive behavioral therapy, and medication for health anxiety. I speak both from lived experience and from evidence-based information for psychology papers.

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What You Need to Know About Timelines and Lichen Sclerosus

Since you were diagnosed with Lichen Sclerosus, have you ever given yourself a timeline to get better? Perhaps you gave yourself timelines concerning seeing relief from your medication, getting out of a flare, to getting into remission? Have you given yourself timelines and expectations for when you will be able to have sex again? Have these timelines caused you mental distress? Did you feel even more depressed and discouraged than you were when you initially set the timeline? If so, this post is for you!

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Stress Reduction: The Secret You Need to Know

Are you worried about the effects of stress on your body and your Lichen Sclerosus? Do you feel caught in a vicious circle of knowing stress can flare your symptoms, flaring, stressing about the flare, etc.? If yes, you are not alone. Keep on reading for the secret of stress reduction and lichen sclerosus.

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Grief: The Forgotten Feeling of Living with Lichen Sclerosus

Today, I want to touch on another aspect of mental health that often accompanies living with Lichen Sclerosus: that is, grief. Grief is a multifaceted feeling and can present itself in several different ways. In this post, I will discuss how grief can manifest and why grief is normal when you have Lichen Sclerosus.

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How to Cope with Anger and LS

This blog post will focus on the anger and frustration I felt because of the modifications I had to incorporate into my life for the sake of my mental health and wellbeing.

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I am often surprised that she captures what has been on my mind.”

Jaclyn manages to put into words many of the thoughts, feelings, fears (oh, so many fears), and questions, that come with a diagnosis of LS. She captures both the physical and often more importantly the mental health aspects of learning to live with LS. Her generosity in sharing her personal journey and speaking truthfully about LS provides much needed hope and perspective
Joanne

Reading her blogs has helped me deal with LS in every way – physically, emotionally, and mentally. -Maria

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